Boys
Things I hate about boys...
I hate that some of the good ones actaully imply that rules put in place to avoid sexual or other harassment are crazy, overkill whatever, fuck you obviously have not been sexually harrassed and just because you wouldn't do it doesn't mean other guys don't and there are many times in a girls life where there is little to be done if a guy puts his hands places they shouldn't be or says things he shouldn't say, and by the way to all you losers out there, this is NOT flirting and it does not turn us on or make us like you more, I promise!!!!
All you ranters next time think because you are at risk of saying something like that in fornt of a girl/boy who is dealing with that shit, all those rules doesn't mean there are easy solutions, no offence people but these situations can be pretty difficult to figure out.
Second thing I hate about boys, being all touchy feely without permission or consideration for the other person, dude it is just rude and embressing, especially if I hint that I don't like it,
two such examples come to mind, for the first all I can say is that it really sucks to have to deal with that shit, I kinda wish that I could make some strong gay man treat this dude the way he thinks it is okay to treat women, asshole. That would be the best thing ever but instead I will completely stop trying to be polite about it and simply have nothing to do with him and tell people around me why I choose to do so.
The second is actually a friend. We both know we are just friends yet he insists on doing things like surprising me by randomly wrapping his arms around me at a croweded book store as if it is cute or funny or something and putting his arm around my shoulder as if to send the message that we are together or something, I mean if you had a girlfriend would you be cool with other guys being all touchy feely with her. It is not like I don't have other male friends that I actaully get/give hugs to but they are never really annoying about it.
I really don't think I should have to pretend to have a boyfriend or actually have one in order for touchy feely boys to keep their hands off of me. No offence neanderthals but womens' bodys are their own property not their boyfriends. Which leads me to the third annoying male...
The third kind of male I hate is the alpha male. The kind that walks around like he is the stud and all the girls secretly want him, the self obsession is just too annoying. Addtionally winning a gilrs affections is not like winning a trophy. But what buggs me most about this type of male is that I always get the feeling that they have to believe that women are weak and need them or something.... that is messed up!!!! DUDE if a girl digs you it ain't cause she's not strong enough to take care of herself. The reason I find this insulting is because even if a guy is helping me with something, it doesn't mean that I haven't had to do difficult things for myself in the past. And no offence to such believers but have you ever looked around, there are plenty of strong women everywhere. Also strength can be defined in different ways. Physical strength is not the only strength there is, here is a morbid example to explain, you can kill a person by clubbing them on the head or by poisoning them, they both work.
I hate that some of the good ones actaully imply that rules put in place to avoid sexual or other harassment are crazy, overkill whatever, fuck you obviously have not been sexually harrassed and just because you wouldn't do it doesn't mean other guys don't and there are many times in a girls life where there is little to be done if a guy puts his hands places they shouldn't be or says things he shouldn't say, and by the way to all you losers out there, this is NOT flirting and it does not turn us on or make us like you more, I promise!!!!
All you ranters next time think because you are at risk of saying something like that in fornt of a girl/boy who is dealing with that shit, all those rules doesn't mean there are easy solutions, no offence people but these situations can be pretty difficult to figure out.
Second thing I hate about boys, being all touchy feely without permission or consideration for the other person, dude it is just rude and embressing, especially if I hint that I don't like it,
two such examples come to mind, for the first all I can say is that it really sucks to have to deal with that shit, I kinda wish that I could make some strong gay man treat this dude the way he thinks it is okay to treat women, asshole. That would be the best thing ever but instead I will completely stop trying to be polite about it and simply have nothing to do with him and tell people around me why I choose to do so.
The second is actually a friend. We both know we are just friends yet he insists on doing things like surprising me by randomly wrapping his arms around me at a croweded book store as if it is cute or funny or something and putting his arm around my shoulder as if to send the message that we are together or something, I mean if you had a girlfriend would you be cool with other guys being all touchy feely with her. It is not like I don't have other male friends that I actaully get/give hugs to but they are never really annoying about it.
I really don't think I should have to pretend to have a boyfriend or actually have one in order for touchy feely boys to keep their hands off of me. No offence neanderthals but womens' bodys are their own property not their boyfriends. Which leads me to the third annoying male...
The third kind of male I hate is the alpha male. The kind that walks around like he is the stud and all the girls secretly want him, the self obsession is just too annoying. Addtionally winning a gilrs affections is not like winning a trophy. But what buggs me most about this type of male is that I always get the feeling that they have to believe that women are weak and need them or something.... that is messed up!!!! DUDE if a girl digs you it ain't cause she's not strong enough to take care of herself. The reason I find this insulting is because even if a guy is helping me with something, it doesn't mean that I haven't had to do difficult things for myself in the past. And no offence to such believers but have you ever looked around, there are plenty of strong women everywhere. Also strength can be defined in different ways. Physical strength is not the only strength there is, here is a morbid example to explain, you can kill a person by clubbing them on the head or by poisoning them, they both work.
posted by girlyLarki at 4:15 AM
3 Comments:
What needs to be done is to conjure up a mental equivalent to a swift kick in the balls.
hey watver u prob like it and are just unhappy it wasn't someone u like!
duh if someone you like is touchy feely it is all good obviously, anonymous....obviously it is only a problem when you don't want the dude to be touchy feely but that is the point I am quite capable of deciding that for myself duh.
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